How to Get Your Phone Calls Returned

It seems that today’s executives have lost their manners. Very few managers seem compelled to return the calls of suppliers following new business discussions,
and it seems to be getting worse.
Instead of taking it personally or wearing the frustration of radio silence, perhaps we sales professionals need to reboot our expectations. Recent thinking indicates it takes at least four attempts to reach someone following an initial meeting, and perhaps that is on the low side according to the client experiences we field today.
The law of reciprocity states that if you do something for your prospect, like write a proposal or supply samples, they will be more inclined to give you something back in return. But the traditional giving seems to have lost its gravitational pull.
If this is the new normal, then what can we do to generate a return on our prospecting efforts? The key is to become more valuable to the customer who is grappling with the decision to change their supply. You need to be positioned inside the tent by being different and much closer to how the customer wishes to proceed.
Below are some initial thoughts on how to be different. We welcome your ideas on what you have found to be effective in dealing with the time poor, rude or simply overrun executives.
1. Be valuable to their buying process
- - Are they the decision maker or just the gatherer of information?
- - Do you know their buying process and decision criteria?
- - Who else is involved?
2. Understand their pleasure and pain points
- - How does your solution increase their pleasure?
- - How does your solution decrease their pain?
- - Use this in your communications
- - Recognise these forces operate on both a business and personal level
3. Leave a hook after every contact
- - Send them something – sample, paper, proposal, suggestions for next steps
- - Have them do something – complete part of a process, a profile, a health check
- - Set a date for a follow up, and hold them to it
4. Introduce some appropriate inertia
- - Include a time limit on a quoted price that will expire after a certain date
- - Flag the risk of the offer expiring altogether
- - Flag other competitor approaches
- - We will move on if we don’t hear from you by a certain date
5. Seek their help on a dimension of the deal
- - “Asking for their help” is a powerful way to get them involved psychologically
- - Follow up on a point of specification
- - Clarify the quote
6. Set a meeting assuming they are interested
“Since I haven’t heard from you, let me make it easy for you to progress our initial discussions. I am available on Wednesday at 2pm or 4pm or Thursday at 9am or 11am. Please simply indicate by return which time works best for you.”
7. Introduce leverage on the slow responder
“I haven’t heard from you and was getting concerned the opportunity may be growing whiskers. I would certainly appreciate talking with you directly as to where it sits at your end so we can decide how to best service you.
Alternatively, if I don’t hear from you, I thought you should know that I plan to follow up with – your boss, your colleague, the MD…”
8. Best time to call
- - Early or late to get around the gatekeeper
- - Some say it is between 10am and 12 noon
- - Never call around lunchtime
9. Change your media channel
- - Use a mixture of office phone, email, mobile phone
- - Consider communication through Social Media channels such as LinkedIn as some executives use this more out of hours when they have finished with their inbox
10. Lose quickly
- In an email, give them the choice to advise if they have decided to go elsewhere.
“Hi John, I was concerned I haven’t heard back from you since our meeting/we sent you samples/I sent you our proposal. We have followed through by doing x, y, z as we committed and were now respectfully seeking your feedback as to how you wish to proceed. If you have decided to go elsewhere, please let me know to save both of us additional work.”
11. Send a handwritten note
- It differentiates you from others seeking their attention, makes it more personal
12. Send them a news article or relevant discussion paper
- Keeps you top of mind and gives you additional authority on the subject at hand
13. Use some humour
“I was really looking forward to following up on our meeting/email/proposal but it appears one of the two things have occurred.
Either …
- You are no longer interested – if so, you can tell me and I will recover.
Or …
- You are still interested but something has happened to you – injury, promotion, the alligators ate your arm pits? I am not sure which it is but I certainly wanted to check on your well-being before we send someone over to check on you.”
Pick your mark on this one but make sure your tongue is clearly in your cheek.
14. Drop in on short notice
“Hi Susan, I am meeting with another customer right near your location on Tuesday next week, how about I make it easy for you and drop in quickly to reconnect? I can meet you in reception for a 10-minute chat or we can grab a quick coffee next door. Easy?”
15. ’Have they read it yet’ email follow up
“Dear Jenny, I wanted to follow up our recent meeting as I was expecting to have reconnected with you by now.
I’m wondering if the reason we hadn’t spoken was because you have yet to review the proposal, you had a concern with the specification or I have been wrong in guessing the best times to catch you at your desk?
Please help me understand where you are at with our proposal which can deliver you savings in the order of $100,000 over your current supply arrangement.”
16. Last and final
“John, I have attempted to reach you now by phone and email on a dozen occasions, without a single return call. I can only infer that you are moving in another direction however if that is not the case please call me today.
If I don’t hear from you I will assume you are no longer interested and trust that we can be of service again in the future.”
17. Love/Hate relationship
“Hi Ben, it appears we have a love/hate relationship. I love to give you quality follow up service and you hate to return calls.
Maybe we can let each other know where you are at so I can direct my love accordingly.
Thanks. I look forward to your advice.”



